21
May
I Don T Love My Adopted Child. I was adopted and ifwhen my dad dies I dont know if Id go to the funeral at this point. I also suffered from depression after her. I can relate to this. The love many not be the same because this child will be unique and will create in you a unique love but you can love them equally.
That being said I love my mom to bits and would be beyond heartbroken if anything were to happen to her. Dont get me wrong I absolutely love my adopted daughter. In my observation of families I have noted countless examples of well-meaning parents engaging in behavior that is insensitive misattuned or harmful to their children while earnestly believing. Every child can be your favorite. For my husband this was true but three years later my feelings have not changed. I cant get over the feeling that shes not my kid or that Im taking care of my friend or family members child and not my own.
Honestly there are biological children who have parents they dont love too.
That being said I love my mom to bits and would be beyond heartbroken if anything were to happen to her. Think of your child as your adopted child. When I Didnt Love My Adopted Child. I tell mine all the time that they are the lights of my life that I am honored to be their mother. I love my adopted boys as much as I love my bio boys. Or they blame the child.